Hes moving away dating
The other day I learned that he put up an online dating profile- wth?!I am still going through the phases of our breakup and I can’t even fathom the idea of meeting and talking to a new guy right now. here you are feeling all this pain, heartbreak and sadness…I’m a funny guy, fairly wise, very goal oriented, and I’m very social. But the bottom line is, I’m just not very good with “relationships” or dating in general. Find the part of yourself that can say, “I don’t know why things are the way they are right now, but somehow this is for the best.” Also remember that whether he is over it or not has nothing to do with you and your process.It might give you some sense of satisfaction to know that he’s still pining away, but where will that get you?
I can imagine as you’re feeling that, you resent him. How do you know he’s not dying inside, feeling like his heart was torn in half…And would that really help you move on in a healthy way? Instead of focusing on how he’s feeling, and why he’s (seemingly) moving on so quickly, focus on yourself and on what you need to do to get to a healthy, stable place, one that will open the gates that lead to a long-lasting, loving relationship. Hey Guys, I have known my boyfriend for a couple years now but I did not really get to know him until a couple months ago.and he’s just trying to distract himself from the pain because he really, truly does not know any other way to dull the piercing pain he feels in his heart right now? How do you know that he doesn’t feel completely wretched about himself right now? The only thing you can know is your feelings at this moment.How do you know that, as he’s looking for other women, that his mind and heart won’t scream, “You’ll never find another woman better than the one you had… The truth is, the way you’re looking at it right now is causing you to feel bad.
It may seem the norm that guys will do this to avoid their feelings–get sex, boost ego–but it hurts. and he’s off putting up an ad for a new woman and, perhaps by extension, new sex. are your thoughts, beliefs, and perceptions about the situation. All you know is that right now, you’re hurting and you feel it’s his fault for making you hurt like this. It may not seem like it on the surface, but that’s because men process emotions differently than women…not because they don’t have any emotions.