Cons of dating a pothead
Until I told her that I’ve been driving so long under the influence of weed that driving sober — WHICH IS IMPOSSIBLE — would be dangerous because it’s so unfamiliar.”Presented by Signup for free online dating.
Cocaine, LSD, magic mushrooms, MDMA, opium, PCP, hashish, alcohol, rohipnol, morphine, and nicotine. Now I’m not gonna debate the pros and cons of getting high. Of course you CAN approach women when stoned, if you force it. Some guys might be strong enough to pull it off, but for others it’ll be running game on “hard mode.” Being high can be detrimental to your physical appearance.
Smoking a bowl can make leaving the house a real challenge for many people – to say nothing of cold approaching. It can make kissing less pleasant and escalation more difficult. That’s especially true for extroverted men – I’ve seen stoned extrovert naturals deal with women just fine.
I got in the habit of texting “Are you a solid or a liquid?
I just found out that this guy I dated for two years had been peeing in cups and placing them around his bedroom because he was always too stoned to get up and use the bathroom that was located eight feet away. As someone who smokes weed herself from time to time, I’m gonna say a heady combination of both. On 4/20, we cooked a giant batch of pot-brownies, but then headed off to a friend’s house, since her roommate wasn’t “green-friendly.” About an hour later, my girlfriend started getting frantic text messages: we’d left a couple brownies behind and her date had innocently eaten them. She had to coax him out and drive him home mid-meal. I would go to his shows, tell him that I loved his band, and strongly intimate that I loved him too. Mackenzie was a smart, funny, laid-back girl I dated in college.
I’m the kind of idiot who has dated not one but two pot dealers. The dynamic between the three of us never really recovered after that. He was always stoned, and if he wasn’t eating wasabi peas with his shirt off on the floor, he was having a “dark spell.” Usually a dark spell consisted of a deep stare and a story about various bloodcurdling things. They’re from the prisons.” I said, “Yeah, that’s sad,” to which he responded, “Let’s go dig one up.” I declined, and he got really upset. She smoked a lot of pot, which wasn’t my thing, but I figured if it didn’t interfere with her grades or life, it wasn’t a big deal. Then I found out from friends that she was in fact, the kingpin drug dealer of the school. I was really on the straight and narrow until I met him, but as our relationship got more serious, so did my dependence on weed, kind of a pre-req for being around him.
Depending on your tolerance, cannabis can help your “flow” during your dates. I’ve personally never had a problem seducing women while stoned on first dates. Weed itself can be great “bait” to lure a girl back to your place. I’ve used this line more times than I can count – “Hey lets go back to my house and smoke a bowl…” Works like a charm. It’ll help you last longer and prolong your pleasure. Some say smoking marijuana kills the male sex drive. When you’re high you tend to not give a fuck about women, or anything else. This can be especially attractive to women when you’ve got other areas of your life handled properly.
Cannabis is a great way to screen out uptight chicks. But most hotter, younger, crazier chicks aged between 18-23 DO smoke bud. And even if she doesn’t smoke, her attitude towards it says a lot about her. But it enhances sex and can make it better for both partners. That’s never been a problem for me, so I doubt that claim. Though ganja isn’t a hard drug, it’s still mostly illegal. Smoking weed runs counter to the whole self-improvement & health theme popular in the manosphere.
I once dated this girl who was a complete stoner — pretty much never sober.